Inspirational stories and ideas make people move. Likewise, negative ones bring your energy down!It is often easier said than done "stay away from negative people". In real life there can be cases where for whatever reason you cannot do that. It could be a member of your family who is always negative, but you care for him or her and want to help or it could be a close friend who has saved your life or gotten you out of trouble so you feel grateful and you will never abandon him or her.
Whatever the case, these do exist and thus this post to bring it to your attention. The way complaining or constantly talking and discussion about problems works is in a very subtle and invisible way. It is sort of similar to someone pulling petrol out of a car. You can be sitting and listening to problems and complains and then your friend or family would leave your house and you might find yourself not feeling like working or thinking about their problems. But just 1 hour ago you were going full speed on your project and now that motivation or muse has just disappeared and you are back on Earth.
Be mindful of this effect. It is not for nothing that people say that you must surround yourself with inspirational, smart and energetic people who are full of love and passion and action. In a group like this it is almost impossible not to reach success. However, like I mentioned, it is not always possible to completely eliminate negativity and so there is only one weapon that you have that can counter this effect and this weapon is called DISCIPLINE!
- Get back on your project!
- Remember your goals!
- Remember what you are fighting for and where you want to get to!
- Watch whatever inspirational videos you love if that helps!
But whatever you do enforce DISCIPLE in order to achieve success. No matter how you feel get back on the path, get back to your work and for the future, if possible, either limit the amount of contact you have t have with this person or persons or find a way to turn your conversations into constructive and positive conversations. After all, I like to think that everyone wants to be successful, so see if you can think of a way to turn your complaining friend or family into talking about an interesting project, no matter how small it is!
Resist the effect of complaints and negativity!
Remember your path!
Be strong and disciplined!
Fight for success!
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